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Therapy can be a homecoming to yourself, your relationships, and to what matters most to you.

Hi, I'm Alex.

In my work as a therapist, I start from the belief that most behaviors make sense in context. What looks like overthinking, people pleasing, shutting down, defensiveness, or avoidance is often protective, or once was. At some point, those strategies likely helped you cope, belong, stay safe, or get through something difficult. Over time, old ways of protecting yourself can begin to create new pain. There's definitely value in understanding why, but I believe change often happens when we slow down enough to notice how things are happening in real time and begin to practice something new.

 

I value authenticity, belonging, and honest connection. I care deeply about helping people build the capacity to be with discomfort and uncertainty, because so much change can become possible when we stop waiting for certainty before we move. I take a culturally responsive and systemic approach to therapy. That means I consider not only your inner world, but also the relationships, family patterns, communities, identities, and larger systems that have shaped your experience. I see therapy as a collaborative process. You're the expert of your lived experience. My role is to bring perspective, care, and presence that help you understand yourself more clearly and create meaningful change.

I am attachment-informed and trauma-informed, and I draw from Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), mindfulness, somatic approaches, and parts work. In practice, this might look like exploring relationship patterns, noticing what happens in your body during stress, getting curious about conflicting inner parts, building tolerance for discomfort & uncertainty, and experimenting with doing something different.

What It's Like to Work Together & How I Show Up

Therapy with me is...

  • a steady landing spot where you can show up just as you are, even if you feel unsure, overwhelmed, or guarded

  • warm, real, & human, with no expectation to perform 

  • sometimes serious, sometimes laughing, often both in the same session

  • a space where we slow things down enough to notice & shift what's actually happening in real time, not just talk about it after the fact

  • gently curious without focusing on "right answers"

  • a collaborative & compassionate process where you can try new things

  • supportive & grounded, with caring honesty when something deeper needs attention

  • paced in a way that respects your nervous system and capacity

Education & Training

  • MA Couples & Family Therapy | Seattle University

  • Gottman Level 1 Training | The Gottman Institute

  • Comprehensive Internal Family Systems | Frank Anderson for PESI

  • Certificate in Neuroscience for Mental Health Professionals, in process

Professional Memberships

  • Member, American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT)

  • Member, Washington Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (WAMFT)

Reaching out can feel vulnerable. You don't have to do it perfectly.

If you’re considering therapy and think I might be a good fit, I'd love to chat.  I’ll meet you with warmth, honesty, and kindness from the start.

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